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Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio
"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I've ever written." ~ and I add-on another last two, from somewhere I read J

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7.. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it..
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in Miracles
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you are loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's,we'd grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come.
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift
46. Don’t spend your life WONDERING. Take chances. You might never know what really happens if you try.

47.Don’t settle for something less than what you deserve.

tagged by dears eeleng and emily

1 . What have you been doing recently?
hmph~ cry, angry and smile back :D

2 . Do you ever turn your handphone off?
yea! when somebody had pissed me off!

3 . What happened at 10am today?
burst in tear. :(

4 . When did you last cry?
just only ~ LOL

5 . Believe in Fate/Destiny?
FATE !

6 . What do you want in life now?
I wan cash, I wan a smarty brain, I wan a great future and I wan ppl love&care me more!

7 . Do you carry an umbrella when it rains or just put up your hood?
sure carry umbrella when there is a rain la.. bcz normally i wearing baju kurung ler,
I dun want to have free show for passengers.. XP

8. What’s your favourite thing to do on bed?
on bed ? surely sms wan.

9. What bottoms are you wearing now?
100% cotton hawaii pants :D

10. What are the nicest things in your inbox?
u mean emails ? i think is some weird stuffs tat i nvr see in life be4

11. Do you tend to make relationships complicated?
definitely NO! I wan a simple relationship. couple / fren / enemy. that's all

12. Are you wearing anything borrowed from anyone?
no, becuz I found it weird wearing ppl's stuffs..

13. What was the last movie you caught?
movie ? tvb dramas ba. rewatch again.

14. What are you proud of ?
I have lovely parents
15. What does the oldest text msg in your inbox says and who is it from?
from my cousin, she asked me when I will pay a visit to her. .

16. What was the last song you sang out loud?
I rarely sing.

17. Do you have any nicknames?
got, most common is Jess! or lyn lyn, a lyn, just whatever lyn .. sounds lil horny huh ?

18. What does the newest text msg says and who is it from?
my gor- yew cent. "ok lo... :'("

19. What time did you go to sleep last night?
around 12

20. Are you currently happy?
obviously not!

21. Who gives you the best advice?
these few days is chen yew cent. he cares me !

22. Do you eat whipped cream straight from the can?
sure not .!

23. Who do you talked to on the phone last night?
yew cent, zhi yeung, grace. and sorry jian wei dint pick ur call, bcz tat time i'm crying~

24. Is something bugging you right now?
no

25. Who is the last person to make you laugh?
ban keng

26. Do you like yourself?
depends

27. You want $5 or $10?
10$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

28. Do you think you are stupid sometimes?
my frens say i'm stupid

29. Who is your best best best friend?
not sure.

30. What will you do if you like that boy?
treat him better than others

31. Who are your favourite stars?
no one

32. You hate your mother sometimes in some way?
most of the time no.

33. Do you even stead before? ??

34. What type of boy do you like?
caring, romantic, mature thinker, listen to me, LOVE ME

35. Now are you single / attached?
single

Pass this tag to 10 people!
1. siow teng
2. hui qi
3. hui yan
4. jessie
5. ckt
6. leewei
7. han yang
8. foo weng
9. kien fong
10. jY

1. Would you date number 5?
why not

2. Number 2 just got in a car crash. How do you react?
call/msg her immediately

3. You see number 9 with your boyfriend / girlfriend.
he's guy. so say hi to them la.

4. You come home and your room has been ransacked by number 4.
nvm, she's my cousin. i forgive her

5. Number 1 is acting weird.
i will accompany her if she need me

6. Numbers 3 and 8 decided to give 10 a haircut.
i dun think he mind, he likes to be botak.

7. Number 7 just got tickets for him / her and ask you to go to a concert.
lemme think

8. Number 10 takes you to a bar.
i will try.

9. Number 4 have to move to the other side of the world.
send her to airport

10. You and number 8 are being chased by the cops for an unknown reason.
LOL, it's a dream i noe

11. Number 5 asks you out to dinner.
np

12. Number 9 and you are sitting on a bus.
chit-chatting

13. Number 6 calls you in the middle of the night because he / she cant sleep.
is it bf stuff? mayb i will help

14. Your walking with someone and number 6 runs up and tackles you to the ground from behind.
i will laugh and laugh

15. Number 1 is crying one day and you ask him / her why and it seems their boyfriend / girlfriend has dumped them.
hrm, i will tam her.

16. Number 2 offers to bake you a meal. As you sit in the other room, the kitchen is suddenly aflame.
run into kitchen

17. Number 4 comes to your door one day holding a koala.
play it

18. Number 4 just got you an X-box.
waT ?!

19. Number 9 challenges you to a children’s card game!
my fav.

20. Number 1 thinks he / she is overweight.
then this world dun have fatty d.

21. Number 7 looks lonely.
he wont lonely ba. frens around him all the time

22. Number 2 asks you rudely to go leave her / him alone.
i walked away. let her calm down

23. Numbers 5 and 3 decided to dye their hair black. What do you say to that?
go ahead .

24. Number 2 tells you he / she is going to go out for awhile, and then later you hear a shooting where number 2 went.
c wat happened lo.

25. You catch number 9 by himself / herself crying.
ask him wat happened

what a sucky day

it's hard to forget this day la.
26.6.o9

To that girl,
I understand what's ur feeling that time,
At first I admit really wan chop u into pieces,
but when I calm down and think rasionally,
I noe that was women's characteristic.
Love is fulled of jealousy ..
And one thing i know- love is blind.
so I try to calm myself and forget what u did to me.
Bcz I really can feel that u love him so much !
I salute u ~

for that guy,
sorry to hurt u,
I cant be friend with you,
dun find me d pls,
She needs you!


becoz of this I cried so many times,
I feel sorry to made ppl misunderstand me.
If u'r her fren and belif what that girl had told u ,
den go ahead..

treat me as bad ppl, nvm ~
I cant force anyone to believe me as well.

gor ar,

really wanna tell u everything now,

I'm hurt now!

I dun trust anyone from now onwards.

TT

i'm really dead of this.

my blog going to remain dead bcz lack of time ^^

exam papers all had given back.
no need to discuss bout result ba,
hahaha. . skipped it ~

ok,
now my aim of life is to get good result in trial and spm,
if manage to get scholarship is better still.

yerterday,
go and c singing contest,
and den basketball match,
sorry ban keng for canceling our lunch ! TT
dun angry la ~
and after basketball match over is already almost 5pm.
is tired.
after tat .....
myself noe can already.C=

haha,

you are so so so so so cute!

heart u ~

now,

study first ^^

oh, i'm watching drama. NO disturb LOL

arlo ^^
sorry currently having lazy mood xP
so seldom do blogging work lu.. forgive me ba .. hehe

dUh,

time flies , school reopen soon ~

oh nO, and spm coming nia ..

TT

i hate this momment .. ewwww

tok bout yesterday,

we celebrate bday wif dear cay in 1U!

haha, can counted as successful ba,

bcz v did suprised her !!

haha , happy ler dear :P

giv u a biggggg kisssss MUACKS

ok crapping time,

can ignored this part seriously XP

recently..

i realised...

i did a great job last time XD

keeping laughing sometimes felt tat i was amaze LOL

i'm glad i'm not the one accompany entire of his life XD

i dump him so what !?

if u tell me he's good.

den congratz ,

i noe u doesn't know him well haha!

*ok la , ended up my crapping XD*

and

heart to heart talk

currently..

i realised..

he is like lil boy,

just do whatever he wants to do,

talk anything he wants to talk,

express whatever feeling to ppl,

without hiding it :)

there are seldom guys like him.

ha~ he's cute ..

just praising ..

dun think other things Zzz..

i saw my fren writing in his msn there,

he wrote 早已忘记爱的感觉

haha.. i think i'm the one also.

so i can 100% understand that feeling,

whr's my love.?.

*still hunting for next victim* .. haha!

xoxo..

hey there hols

it's 2 weeks hols.
And i realised my blog is time to UPDATE
Well, tok bout my hols ya?
31.5.09 v went tropicanal mall for dinner :D
v ate Sushi Tei there, it's quite nice and v ordered alot.
oh my stomach! cant finished it.. T T
1.6.09 HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO CHUN HAN ! ^^
3.6.09 & 5.6.09 visit grandma hse :) i miss 'em badly ! and da lil cousins
and i get a experience thr, that's i watch my 1st horror movie thr ^^V
brave isn't it ? :D
4.6.09 he called me and v chat bout 2+ hours if i'm not mistaken. o.O
haha, my god. LOL! nowadays i started to sms back more often. :)
And I can play a new song - CHONG BAI from Fish Leong ^^
i love this song as well !
6.6.09 we have a short photo shooting in field for school's magazine.
it's not very prefect but consider good :D
And later family and a I will fetch grandpa to Genting for dinner ^^


this is all bout my 1st week of hols.

LASTLY .
AGAIN, i addicted to minesweeper again LOL

Happy Hols frens ~